Welcome to my foray into blogging. A foray can be defined as "an attempt at some new occupation or activity". That explanation would also accurately describe why I am taking a course which is requiring that I not only explore and develop my skills in relation to seeking and providing information through the use of technology, but also challenging me to discover the truth about domestic violence and apply my new found knowledge to my personal life as well as my future professional endeavors.
I actively campaigned to participate in this course, officially known as Sociology 404 - Family, Violence, and Society offered through the University of Idaho and led by Dr. Ginna Babcock. As the weeks have gone by I have seriously questioned why I thought taking a course which explores, in great detail, the who, what, why, when and where of domestic violence. Firstly I am taking the class to gain knowledge and insight into an issue I feel is greatly in need of serious attention by our society. I read news stories and listen to programs daily which relate the atrocities committed against women and children in other countries. Most people would agree the treatment and conditions suffered by these victims are unaccaptable and worthy of attention and assistance. Yet in the United States those same people will ultimately turn a blind eye and a deaf ear to their neighbors, family members, students, and friends. They will turn the radio station, log off the news channel and close the newspaper feeling as if domestic violence is a "private matter". Frustratingly, yet understandably, those who do become involved in helping individuals and families who are suffering often find themselves overwhelmed and/or simply at a loss because while bumps, bruises, scratches and cuts will eventually heal... the long term effects of violence and abuse live on in one's head and one's heart.
After thinking about my first objective and working through the course material I have had to admit to myself that, while I didn't outwardly express it at the time I enrolled in this class not only to complete my education and learn ways to apply my new found knowledge and become involved on a professional level, but because I have been a witness to, victim of, and even a participant in domestic violence. To actively and honestly acknowledge this realization, my role in it and how it has affected myself and my entire family has been difficult and often heartbreaking. It has also been embarrassing and humbling. Yet my addmission has yielded an understanding I did not possess before reading through the text, exploring information through the Internet, reading other's experiences, and viewing pictures and videos I really do not want to witness again but know I will have to in order to help others and remind myself of what I never want to have happen to me, my children, my sisters or my brothers again.
